And while there are certain anatomical complications involved with immediately going again that men are up against, it's not impossible to give her an encore performance — as long as you know the challenges you're up against, and how to overcome them. According to certified counselor and relationship expert David Bennett , understanding what this is and how it pertains to you personally is a key first step to figuring out your best course of action to prepare for a second round of sex. That's why, after an ejaculation, your partner should focus on you right away. And don't be afraid to take control of the situation by doing it yourself and having her watch in order to learn. It will be way easier, though, if your partner is still moaning in pleasure. If the partner wants the second round, the man will need more stimuli than usual. Keep the Stimulation Going Refractory periods are always going to be the challenge to overcome when gearing up for a second round. Clean Up You're going to have to do it anyway — so why not utilize your refractory period to make sure you're doing things as safely during round two as you did the first time around?
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